Comments on: When I’m upset… http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/ I am not a has-been. I am a will be. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance Fri, 10 Feb 2012 03:37:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Grannymar http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30162 Grannymar Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:24:33 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30162 WWW - I need to relearn how to day dream! WWW - I need to relearn how to day dream!

]]> By: wisewebwoman http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30161 wisewebwoman Sun, 07 Mar 2010 22:25:24 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30161 No point in worrying, GM, you are so right. I tend to react to the sad state of the universe but have tamped it all down this year so far, nothing I can do apart from comment about it when I can't take it anymore for a while! I have a lot of quiet time which suits me, and sometimes I just sits and day dreams hours away. I just love that. XO WWW No point in worrying, GM, you are so right. I tend to react to the sad state of the universe but have tamped it all down this year so far, nothing I can do apart from comment about it when I can’t take it anymore for a while!
I have a lot of quiet time which suits me, and sometimes I just sits and day dreams hours away. I just love that.
XO
WWW

]]> By: Grannymar http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30160 Grannymar Sun, 07 Mar 2010 19:46:53 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30160 Baino - No need to worry about me. If I don't post for a week, then start singing out loud and send in the toyboys! Baino - No need to worry about me. If I don’t post for a week, then start singing out loud and send in the toyboys!

]]> By: Baino http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30159 Baino Sun, 07 Mar 2010 18:36:25 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30159 I wish I could be quiet and contemplative. I tend to release pressure with a tanty now and then! Glad you're alright this was rather contemplative, I was a little worried for you for a moment. I wish I could be quiet and contemplative. I tend to release pressure with a tanty now and then! Glad you’re alright this was rather contemplative, I was a little worried for you for a moment.

]]> By: Grannymar http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30158 Grannymar Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:14:01 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30158 Steph - Thanks for the hugs, I am fine and in great form. It was one of those 'What the h**k will I write about today' days, sorry to worry everyone. Judy - Living alone can be verrrrrry quiet. I am still waiting for the walls to learn to speak! ;) Geri - Right now I am actually better than I have been for months... apart from the bits wearing out or falling off! :( I use music to get me going or to set my mood in the morning time. The place gets rather crowded when a Male voice choir tunes up!! I open the windows and hope I fool the neighbours! :roll: Steph - Thanks for the hugs, I am fine and in great form. It was one of those ‘What the h**k will I write about today’ days, sorry to worry everyone.

Judy - Living alone can be verrrrrry quiet. I am still waiting for the walls to learn to speak! ;)

Geri - Right now I am actually better than I have been for months… apart from the bits wearing out or falling off! :( I use music to get me going or to set my mood in the morning time. The place gets rather crowded when a Male voice choir tunes up!! I open the windows and hope I fool the neighbours! :roll:

]]> By: Grannymar http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30157 Grannymar Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:05:51 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30157 Nick - I have done my share of sitting and doing nothing in the past few months. Now with the brighter days and sunshine I want to keep moving and make up for lost time. Rhyleysgranny - Yee are reet, wor Jackie wez a canny gadgie frem the North East of England! :D Ramana - I am in fine fettle and was out enjoying the sunshine for a couple of hours. Alas I forgot the camera. Momma - Sometimes we waste precious time worrying about what might never happen. Nick - I have done my share of sitting and doing nothing in the past few months. Now with the brighter days and sunshine I want to keep moving and make up for lost time.

Rhyleysgranny - Yee are reet, wor Jackie wez a canny gadgie frem the North East of England! :D

Ramana - I am in fine fettle and was out enjoying the sunshine for a couple of hours. Alas I forgot the camera.

Momma - Sometimes we waste precious time worrying about what might never happen.

]]> By: Geri Atric http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30156 Geri Atric Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:21:33 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30156 I am so sorry to read that you are not in the best of health GM. But after following your blog for so long, there is one thing about your heart that I am absolutely sure of - it is always in the right place! Personally, I too 'close down' when something has upset me. Unfortunately though, this closing down also often makes me feel numb and 'hardened' to whomever or whatever has upset me so badly. Knowing this, I bring myself 'back' by playing melancholy songs and crying my eyes out, until I feel better! (Favouorite sob-songs amongst others, include: "I'll put you together again" by Hot Chocolate and "Everybody hurts by REM)! Sounds ridiculous I know, but it works for me. After the induced crying I find I can rejoice in feeling real human emotions again: empathy, renewed tolerance and just as importantly - self confidence and the strength to tackle 'things' again! Take care GM xx I am so sorry to read that you are not in the best of health GM. But after following your blog for so long, there is one thing about your heart that I am absolutely sure of - it is always in the right place!

Personally, I too ‘close down’ when something has upset me. Unfortunately though, this closing down also often makes me feel numb and ‘hardened’ to whomever or whatever has upset me so badly. Knowing this, I bring myself ‘back’ by playing melancholy songs and crying my eyes out, until I feel better! (Favouorite sob-songs amongst others, include: “I’ll put you together again” by Hot Chocolate and “Everybody hurts by REM)!
Sounds ridiculous I know, but it works for me. After the induced crying I find I can rejoice in feeling real human emotions again: empathy, renewed tolerance and just as importantly - self confidence and the strength to tackle ‘things’ again!
Take care GM xx

]]> By: kenju http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30155 kenju Sun, 07 Mar 2010 14:51:08 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30155 That's a good way to handle it, I think. Hope that your quiet time will not be so necessary soon. That’s a good way to handle it, I think. Hope that your quiet time will not be so necessary soon.

]]> By: steph http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30154 steph Sun, 07 Mar 2010 14:29:00 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30154 Sending big (((hugs))) Sending big (((hugs)))

]]> By: momma http://www.grannymar.com/blog/2010/03/07/when-i%e2%80%99m-upset%e2%80%a6/#comment-30153 momma Sun, 07 Mar 2010 13:56:13 +0000 http://www.grannymar.com/blog/?p=6779#comment-30153 I too, find that when I think of the problems we are all facing today I feel helpless to find a solution. I have finally taken your course of leaving them to more capable people. Oh I rant a little sometimes but like the old theory of 'never piss into the wind' it won't do any good to worry on. I too, find that when I think of the problems we are all facing today I feel helpless to find a solution. I have finally taken your course of leaving them to more capable people. Oh I rant a little sometimes but like the old theory of ‘never piss into the wind’ it won’t do any good to worry on.

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